I keep them at 86 degrees, with high water turnover, now there are 8 of them in a 4 foot long tank, of 40 gallons. I feed live blackworms (but the fish were in this condition before I was able to find them, so that doesn't seem to be the cause, IMO), tetra color bits, NLS growth pellets, hikari algae wafers, frozen daphnia, cyclopeeze, spirulina flake, and basically whatever is in my hand at the moment. I only feed once a day, and there are no other fish in the tank with them. There are 4 caves of varying diameters that at least 2 of them use consistently, and another one uses occasionally. I did try to vent the second 5, and without some help to hold the container, a strong light and a magnifying glass, I couldn't see any noticable differences. I'm terrible at the whole fish perv thing I guess!

I've been told by a reliable source that the first group had a male or two in it, and it all seems up for debate at the moment. I no longer feel quite so disturbed about not being able to tell the difference for sure though ;). Thank you all for trying to help. I will probably just leave the 8 alone until I see some obvious spawning activity. Then I intend to move the "pair" into a tank of their own and see if anything happens in the remaining fish. At this point, I'm not too worried about setting up that second tank in any real hurry!
Barbie