Thanks Barbie
I really want this to be a female, because I do want to set them up for breeding eventually.
She normally is by the cave. Sometimes she goes in, but our male is normally in the area, only sometimes going into the cave. She does seem to follow him around, but he just swims off and ignores her. They normally come out together if there's food.
Is that normal QA behaviour? They are in our large community tank, a 4 foot. So with loads of places to hide away, he does hide from her, although in full view of us.
I saw in your breeding thread of the QA that your male had very long hairs on his fins and odonodes. Arrys are long, but nowhere as long as that. Is that just when they breed or was he always like that?
Thanks for your time

48"x15"x18" Tropical fish tank,planted with few fish and we also have a 24"x15"x15" Tropical, used mainly to raise Corydoras fry(panda, bronze and Trilineatus) and Oto fry