About a week or so later I was in a LFS and seen a sign for SA Bumblebee catfish with a label stating they were but the fish wasn't, so I left it to investigate
this is the fish I photo in the tank at the LFS.

So after some in depth research I returned to the shop and ask them to hold them ( not releasing there was 3 in there) while i set up my tank.
I also know a member on here and the other forum was after one so I dropped him an email to say I had got some and i would get 1 down to him.
this is one of the three now, I believe they are . Which is a good find as there are not many of these in the UK.

so a couple of question.
currently I have them in a small tank, just waiting to send the member his next week. is there any way to sex these? I have read alot on here about the other close relative and some have ways and some don't, I was just wondering if anyone had any success in sexing? I'm thinking these would make a good breeding project if I have a pair.
Once I move them in to a larger tank (30-50g) is there any catfish that you recommend would make good tank mates? I'm thinking about doing a cat only tank for the wife.